How can i date again??? divorced dad?

Yes, I have suffered, not exactly like this but yes have suffered.. I am a normal, nice simple woman who was fooled by a guy.. Not only did I get married to this terrible guy (good while dating but abusive after marriage), I have also gone through a horrific long back by someone who broke in to my house.. But I have survived and still surviving.. I haven't taken anti depressants or have even been to a counselor and things have still emerged better than I thought they would.. I have moved on (not completely but in the process..). with each ping day I see the light at the end of the tunnel get brighter and brighter